7 Ways of Appreciating What You Have In Life
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You could get a new lease of life by understanding the value of what you already have and being grateful for the good things in your life. Here are a few ways in which you can appreciate what you have in life.
1. Compare yourself with people who don’t have even a quarter of what you have
If you think you have hit the bottom in your life and you have nothing to look forward to, look at people who are not as fortunate as you. Compare yourself with people who don’t even have half of what you have, in terms of wealth, family or career. By doing this you will be able to realize that you have to stop complaining all the time to be able to appreciate your life.
2. Hone your best skills
What you have in life does not only include your materialistic possessions but also your knowledge and skills. Every person has unique skills and so do you. Think about your best skills and how you can use them to gain an edge over others. Life will become naturally easier and more beautiful when you are able to use your top skills to get what you want and show everyone what you are capable of.
3. Put effort in showing love and affection to your near and dear ones
One of the most genuine ways of appreciating what you have in life is to offer gratitude and love to your near and dear ones who may have stood by you in the worst of times. In the rut of life, you may have taken them for granted at many occasions. By putting efforts in showering affection on them and making time for them, you will be able to appreciate life in its purest form.
4. Travel and explore
When you travel and get exposed to new people and places, you may be able to see how differently you were brought up from other people and how different your life is. You will be able to see your own life and achievements in a completely new perspective and this may help you to be grateful about what you have in life.
5. Try to have a positive outlook all the time
Being grumpy, whiny and sad about everything in life is only going to pull you away from being able to appreciate what you have in life, whether it is wealth, family or career. Try to smile a lot, have a chirpy outlook and let your attitude be contagious.
6. Pause and slow down
One of the first things you may need to do to be thankful is to take a pause and slow down. Doing simple things like watching the rain, observing a flower bloom, going for a walk on a misty morning or sitting under the stars at night will make you thank your stars for what you have in life.
7. Involve yourself in charity and community work
Community and charity work does not always mean helping the poor and feeling good about yourself. It also includes helping others by sharing your skills or knowledge. Teach a neighbor’s child, help your aunt’s kids get through their homework or share your hobbies and skills with others. Your conscience will feel light and you will be able to feel good about yourself because of your contribution to the society.
